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May 17th, 2026 – Creating a Discipleship Legacy
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Summary
This sermon focuses on the biblical mandate to intentionally invest in the next generation, drawing from Deuteronomy 6:4-9. The pastor emphasizes that faith is passed down not through accident, but through deliberate investment by people who model Christ-like living. Using the metaphor of a bucket filled with life's influences, he illustrates how what we put into our lives determines what comes out during pressure situations - and children are watching and learning from what they see leak out of our 'buckets.'
Intro Prayer
Heavenly Father, as we gather together today, we ask that You open our hearts and minds to what You want to teach us. Help us to be receptive to Your Spirit's leading and to see clearly how You are calling us to invest in the next generation. Give us wisdom to understand our role in passing down faith, and courage to step into the opportunities You place before us. We pray that our time together would draw us closer to You and to one another. In Jesus' name, Amen.
Ice Breaker
What's one thing you remember learning more from watching someone do rather than from being told how to do it?
Key Verses
- Deuteronomy 6:4-9
- 1 Corinthians 11:1
- Ephesians 4:12
- Ecclesiastes 4:12
Questions
- How does the 'bucket illustration' challenge you to think about what you're putting into your life and what might be coming out during stressful moments?
- Shawn mentioned that children learn more from what they see modeled than from what they're told. Can you think of a time when you learned something important by watching someone else's example?
- What does it mean to 'talk about God when you sit down, when you walk, when you lie down, and when you get up' in practical, everyday terms?
- Looking at the Barnabas-Paul-Timothy model, which role do you most need in your life right now: someone to mentor you, peers to walk alongside you, or someone to invest in?
- What are some barriers that might prevent people from stepping into mentoring relationships, and how can we overcome them?
- How can we as a church community better support parents in their role as the primary faith influencers in their children's lives?
- The sermon emphasized that kids in the church are watching all of us, not just their parents. How does this change your perspective on your role in the church community?
- What practical steps can you take this week to begin investing in someone from the next generation, whether through formal ministry or informal relationships?
Life Application
This week, identify one person you can intentionally invest in - whether it's a child, teenager, or young adult. Make a specific plan to connect with them, whether through volunteering in kids or youth ministry, becoming a mentor to a graduating senior, or simply being more intentional about modeling Christ-like behavior in everyday situations where young people might be watching.
Key Takeaways
- Faith is passed down through intentional investment, not by accident
- Children learn more from what they observe than from what they're told
- What we put into our lives determines what comes out during pressure situations
- The Barnabas-Paul-Timothy model shows we need mentors, peers, and people to invest in
- Every church member has a role in shaping the faith of the next generation
Ending Prayer
Lord Jesus, thank You for the reminder that we all have a part to play in passing down faith to the next generation. Help us to be intentional about what we put into our lives so that what flows out reflects You. Give us courage to step into mentoring relationships and wisdom to know how to invest in others well. May our lives be examples that point young people toward You. Help us to find our place in the chain of faith - whether we need a Barnabas to guide us, Pauls to walk with us, or Timothys to invest in. Use us to build Your kingdom through the relationships You place in our path. In Your precious name we pray, Amen.
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